Bondage during sex has been kicking around for centuries. Bondage can be a form of play where one partner, obviously, is the dominant “master” and the other the submissive “slave.” A few simple steps will help you use bondage during sex and assure things don’t get out of hand or harmful for either party.
It may be used in its own right, as in the case of rope bondage and breast bondage, or as part of sexual activity or BDSM activity. When a person is sexually aroused by bondage.
Some couples do incorporate elements of bondage into their otherwise conventional sex lives at some point in their relationships. Bedroom bondage games often constitute foreplay. Bedroom bondage is usually mild bondage, with one partner voluntarily being put into restraints by being tied up or cuffed, hogtied or spread-eagled, possibly blindfolded and gagged etc. by the other, who then sexually stimulates the tied partner theoretically at will by masturbation, oral sex, a vibrator or intercourse.
he free partner may derive erotic pleasure or achieve sexual arousal from being in a dominant situation, while the tied partner may achieve arousal from being in a largely “helpless” position in the hands of a trusted partner. Either way, the partners may be playing out the bondage games to act out their sexual fantasies (not necessarily the same one) and many established couples find the experience relationship-affirming, as they both require and imply a level of trust between them that is not normally found within more casual relationships, as well as being a shared facet of their private and personal sex lives.
Some people regard bondage to be erotically stimulating or sexually arousing. Bondage features in some sexual fantasy scenarios.
Bedroom bondage is a sure-fire way to broaden your sexual horizons and spice up your bedroom antics. Think of bondage as an arena to play out your sexual fantasies such as being ravaged by a captor, rescued by a knight in shining armour.
Basically, bondage can be used to pull parts of the body together; spread or open-up parts of your body; tie your body down to another object such as a bed or chair; wrap your whole body or part of it for mummification-style bondage, or it can be used to constrict normal movement.
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Most people have a penchant for arm restraints when it comes to bondage play. Most armbinders or restraints come in leather (with the exception of Furry Handcuffs) and are ideal for binding your lover’s hands or arms together during roleplay.
Don’t underestimate the effects of nipple clamps during bondage play! Most nipple clamps feature two clasps connected by a chain or two separate clamps that work by applying pressure to you or your lover’s nipples.
If arm restraints do it for you, give the Ultimate Leather Collar or Leather and Chain Lead a whirl and turn your lover into your personal sex slave. You could also opt for a two-in-one option and explore the delights of constricting your lover’s normal movements with Wrist to Thigh Cuffs or Wrist To Ankle Bondage Cuffs.
Keep in mind:
- Make sure your partner is willing. The right way to do bondage is with a willing partner. Discuss the idea and if it’s a go, go for it. Never spring rope, chains and handcuffs on someone while you’re in the middle of an intimate moment unless it has been agreed upon. You can not only freak someone out, but you could also get arrested for an array of charges, like use of force or holding someone against their will.
- Gather your bondage tools. Anything that keeps a person bound in place is fair game. This includes leather straps, belts, neckties, rope, chains, dog collars and leashes, you name it. Just don’t pick anything that will be so tight it will cut off the person’s circulation. Likewise, don’t pick anything with sharp edges turned inward that could cut the person to shreds. If you use handcuffs, make sure you have the key.
- Tie your partner up. A traditional stance is binding someone spread eagle on the bed, with arms and legs tied at the headboard and footboard or to the bed’s frame. You can also bind someone in a chair, to window bars or a fence or pretty much anything else immobile and sufficient enough to told the person. Avoid radiators that are hissing steam.
- Have fun, not injuries, humiliation or hurt feelings. Bondage is a form of play, not a way to torture or harm someone. If your partner is clearly not enjoying himself, by all means stop it. Also, discuss a code word in advance that either one of you can say to stop the action.
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