By Elizabeth Black

So you have heard about the G-spot and you want to find yours? Where to begin? Can you be sure to even have one? The G-spot is that little spongy knot of joy two inches inside your vagina, on the vaginal wall. Some women say they ejaculate when their partners play with their G-spots. They spurt like fountains, all over the bed linens and all over their partners. The G-spot was discovered in 1950 by German gynecologist Ernst Gräfenberg. Gräfenberg published a paper in which he named the area the G-spot, after his last name. His findings were immediately questioned by gynecologists, and to this day there is much debate about its existence. Additional research on the G-spot has been taken since 1981, but there is still much argument over its existence, its nature, and its location. The G-spot is not actually a spot within the vagina. The urethral sponge contains erectile tissue and sensitive nerve endings that react to manual stimulation, and it is thought by many to be the fabled G-spot. Finding your G-spot is very easy. First, insert a curved finger (or two) inside your vagina and curve your fingers towards your belly. Move them in a “come hither” motion. Note the pressure, especially if it feels more intense in one area than in others. If your fingers are too short to locate your G-spot, or if you simply can’t find it, use a G-spot sex toy which is designed to home in on your G-spot immediately. With your fingers, as you become more turned on, you’ll notice a different texture on your G-spot than on other areas of your vaginal wall. You’ll also feel intense and pleasurable sensations as you press against that spot. Note the difference in texture of that spot – the G-spot may feel somewhat bumpy and not as smooth as other areas of your vagina. As you massage, you’ll feel a strong urge to urinate. Don’t stop! That urge means you’re on the right track. You’ll get so aroused you’ll start singing Wagner’s “Ride of the Valkyries”.

If you’d prefer to find your G-spot with a vibrator, you have the pick of many curved vibrators that are designed to find that little bundle of bliss. Erotic Diva carries many varieties of G-spot vibrators and you’re bound to find one or more that appeal to you. To use a G-spot vibrator, first apply a little lube to the tip to ensure easy entry. Set the vibrations to a comfortable speed and intensity, and insert the vibe with the curved tip facing your belly. Once inside, the vibrator will home in on your G-spot immediately, and you will soon feel intense excitement as the vibrator stimulates your G-spot. As the vibrator does all the work while you lie back and enjoy the arousal, you will soon feel an urge to urinate. Don’t give in to this urge. Continue stimulating your G-spot with the vibrator because that sensation means you are aroused and about to have a G-spot orgasm. G-spot vibrators may be used alone or share one with your partner. Ideal as foreplay sex toys, G-spot vibrators will get you aroused quickly and you will enjoy every quaking moment of stimulation. Plus your partner will love seeing you so turned on. All of Erotic Diva’s G-spot vibrators are made from pliable, soft, premium grade materials like rubber, silicone, and jelly. And the prices can’t be beat!

Some women ejaculate when they come with G-spot manipulation. While some have a little shower – the average ejaculate is about a teaspoon – others drown their sheets and even their partners in fluid. Not all women can ejaculate but those that do often spurt a fountain of fluid as they come. Keep stimulating your G-spot until you feel your vaginal muscles tighten intensely, which is the sign that you are about to climax. Whatever you do – don’t stop moving your vibrator! Many women who ejaculate do so after several orgasms and they ejaculate after extreme arousal and direct G-spot manipulation and clit stimulation for a very long period of time, say having multiple orgasms for fifteen minutes and about a half hour’s worth of intense G-spot and clit massage. If you are one of the women who can ejaculate, make your chances for spurting fluid even more probable by regularly exercising your pelvic floor muscles, since women with very strong PC muscles are more likely to ejaculate.

So are you sold on enjoying your G-spot? You can find many G-spot sex toys here at Erotic Diva and while you’re at it, try out our beads and bullets category for ben wa balls so that you may strengthen your pelvic floor.

Strong PC muscles lead to more intense G-spot orgasms – and possibly ejaculation! What’s not to love?

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Are you horny and ready for some action, but you don’t know what sex toys are right for you? Your choice of sex toy depends on what kind of hot screeching monkey sex you want.
How do you go about choosing the sex-toy that is right for you and your lover? Before we get into specifics about which toy or toys might be suitable for you, there are a few questions you should ask yourself and partner.

• Who will be using the toy?
• What do you want the toy to do for you?
• What do you want the toy to look like?
• What you will get for your money?

Intended Use

Who will be using the toy? Is it for you alone, or do you hope to use it with a partner? Is your partner male or female? Are they familiar with adult toys, or are they comfortable with experimenting?

Function

What do you want the sex toy to do for you?

Vibrators can be a good arousal stimulator, helping you achieve orgasm by yourself or with a partner, or simply to massage aching muscles. Do you enjoy deep, hard pressure and penetration? Maybe a dildo would be a good choice. Maybe you would prefer the sensual touch of external stimulation? Then maybe a vibrator would work best. Perhaps you would like a combination of the two. A good guide is to ask yourself what kind of stimulation you enjoy during sex with a partner.

Styles

Since sex toys come in a variety of shapes, sizes, colors and styles, the next question you should ask yourself is what you want your toy to look like.
Do you want your vibrator or dildo to look real? They are often formed from a cast, which was taken of a real penis. They are colored to look like a penis, and include all the veins and ridges a real penis would have. They are usually made from silicone or Cyberskin, which are the most realistic looking and feeling materials available.

On the other side of the spectrum, there are vibrators and dildos that look nothing like a real penis. They may have a phallic shape, but can be brightly colored in all kinds of different shades. Instead of ridges and bumps, they have smooth shafts.

Think about what would turn you on the most. Some people prefer the realistic adult toys, and some do not. It’s just a matter of preference.

For Men

There are sex toys available that are specifically designed for men. Men have traditionally been “left out” when it comes to sex toys, but this seems to be changing. Of course, erection pumps have been available for quite some time, but that was about it. Men can now enjoy sleeves (which are designed to enhance masturbation), cock rings (which help control erection by slipping tightly over the penis), ticklers (which slip over the penis to heighten pleasure for the user and their partner), and extenders (which extend the length of the penis). Dual vibrators are also designed to stimulate a man and his partner during intercourse.

Prices

Do you have an idea of what you’ll spend, and what you’ll get for your money? Quality can vary greatly, so it is a good idea to know what to expect.

As it is in most industries, some companies focus on manufacturing high volume, lower priced products, and some produce higher quality, longer lasting products.
It is important to know that different materials perform differently. Generally, sex toys are made out of plastic, silicone, jelly or latex, but there are more “exotic” materials out there such as metal, Cyberskin, acrylic, etc. Each material has different characteristics and different cleaning requirements.

Where to buy?

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If you want some hot clit action, a vibrator would be perfect for you. There are vibrators that will drive you crazy, and there are vibrators that feel great when they are inside you. One famous vibrator – the Rabbit Pearl – tickles your clit while it rotates in your pussy. If you like to use your hands to play, tweak, and squeeze, a hands-free vibrator is perfect for you. The Butterfly Strap-on is a hands-free vibrator shaped like a tiny butterfly. While the Butterfly buzzes on your clit, driving you to a hot frenzy, you can play with your nipples or go down on your partner.

In addition to clitoral stimulation, many women enjoy G-spot stimulation. G-spot orgasms are said to seriously rock the world. Women who have them say that they are the best, most intense orgasms ever. Some women ejaculate when they have G-spot orgasms. They spew fluid all over the place! If you’ve ever had trouble finding your G-spot, a G-spot vibrator will find that little spot in no time. Every woman should have at least one G-spot vibrator in her sex toys collection.

Do you want some anal action? A butt plug may be perfect for you, whether you are male or female. Some are dildos while others vibrate. Butt plug dildos and vibrators are shorter than traditional dildos and vibrators. They are also flared at the base so that they don’t get lost in the rectum. Lube should be used to ease the butt plug’s entry. Some butt plugs squirt water, which feels great inside. Others can inflate to increase the size. There are also butt plugs that stimulate the prostate gland. Remember that if you are using a butt plug in both the rectum and the vagina that it must be cleaned before switching.

No matter what your sexual urge may be, there is a sex toy out there that will make you very happy. All you need to do is a little research to learn what excites you. Sex toys make sex more fun, especially if you have a playful partner. So, go find yourself a great sex toy, and have some fun!

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